A positive thing to come out of the evolution of a stagnant, lifeless, or hurtful friendship is that you are freeing up space and time in your life for new friends, and that is always something to celebrate.
Nothing new can come into your life if there’s no room for it, and making space for new connections and interactions will allow you to discover whether there really are better friends for you out there ––more aligned, more supportive, more present, less judgemental or less demanding, take your pick!
Take a moment to take stock of why your past friendships have ended, what you would like to see in your future ones, and be upfront about topics like boundaries, interests, and emotional maturity. Know that you deserve friends you can truly be proud to have in your life, and that for every changing friendship you are not able to salvage, there might be someone better for you just around the corner!