Menu
Cart
Name Price QTY

Subtotal:
Tax included. Shipping calculated at checkout.

View cart

Your cart is empty

    SOUL //

    How To Find Comfort in a Different Christmas

    If this Christmas is looking a bit different to how it normally is, for whatever reason, here are some tips on how to make the best of it.

    By Harriet Sweeney / Dec 18 2024
    Save to Favourites

     

    Christmas has a way of feeling like it’s been set in stone—family dinners, cozy evenings, and the same old traditions year after year. But what happens when life decides to shake things up a bit, and your Christmas looks different than expected? Whether it's a change in family dynamics, distance from loved ones, or just a shift in what you need from the holidays, embracing the change can lead to some pretty magical new traditions. Here’s how to cope with a Christmas that feels a little different this year and find comfort in the unexpected.

    embracing the unexpected: why change is worth it

    Change is a funny thing. It can feel unsettling, especially when it messes with something as special as Christmas. But what if we looked at it as an opportunity? When we let go of the expectation that Christmas should look a certain way, we open ourselves up to creating new memories, starting fresh, and finding joy in ways we hadn’t imagined before. It’s not about replacing the old traditions; it’s about discovering what this moment has to offer and making the season your own.
    Title

    SHOP

    mind + spirit
    Mindful Affirmations For Health & Wellbeing

    Mindful Affirmations For Health & Wellbeing

    £28.00
    Productivity Planner

    Productivity Planner

    £28.00
    The Five Minute Journal Fit Edition

    The Five Minute Journal Fit Edition

    £28.00
    The Five Minute Journal

    The Five Minute Journal

    £27.00
    Ritual Diffuser Oil - Refresh

    Ritual Diffuser Oil - Refresh

    £40.00
    Ritual Diffuser Oil - Calm

    Ritual Diffuser Oil - Calm

    £40.00
    Ritual Oil Ceramic Diffuser - Almond White

    Ritual Oil Ceramic Diffuser - Almond White

    £110.00
    Aromatherapy Pillow - Marle Cashmere

    Aromatherapy Pillow - Marle Cashmere

    £65.00
    Aromatherapy Pillow - Natural Linen

    Aromatherapy Pillow - Natural Linen

    £50.00
    Love - Rose Quartz Healing Bracelet

    Love - Rose Quartz Healing Bracelet

    £49.00
    Peace - Moonstone Healing Bracelet

    Peace - Moonstone Healing Bracelet

    £49.00
    Energy - Clear Quartz Healing Bracelet

    Energy - Clear Quartz Healing Bracelet

    £49.00
    Calm - Aventurine Healing Bracelet

    Calm - Aventurine Healing Bracelet

    £49.00
    Love Heart - Moonstone Healing Bracelet

    Love Heart - Moonstone Healing Bracelet

    £49.00
    Heal - Blue Lace Healing Bracelet

    Heal - Blue Lace Healing Bracelet

    £49.00
    Title

    FIND A

    Pro / Wellness Space 

    Pro / Wellness Space 

    NEAR YOU

    DANDY DIRECTORY

    finding new meaning in new traditions

    If this year’s holiday feels a little different, it’s totally okay. Sometimes, it’s the little changes that can lead to the most meaningful experiences. Here are a few ideas to help you create your own holiday magic:

    1. shift the focus to kindness

    Gift-giving and big family gatherings are often at the heart of Christmas, but sometimes the pressure to get everything “perfect” can leave us feeling drained. Instead, why not make this holiday about giving back? Whether it’s volunteering, donating to a cause that means something to you, or even just checking in on a friend who might be struggling, these acts of kindness can make the season feel extra special.

    2. create your own rituals

    If your usual Christmas plans are off the table this year, it might be the perfect time to start new rituals. Maybe it’s lighting a candle each evening to reflect on what you’re grateful for, baking a favorite recipe from scratch, or even starting a journal to write down your thoughts throughout the month. Small, personal rituals can bring so much warmth to your day, and who knows? They might become part of your new tradition going forward.

    3. think outside the box for gift-giving

    Instead of stressing over what to buy, consider shifting the focus of your gifts. This year, maybe give the gift of experience—plan a fun virtual activity or a low-key day together. Or, even better, give the gift of time: a long chat, a homemade meal, or even a playlist of songs that remind you of someone special. Sometimes, the most memorable gifts aren’t the ones you can wrap up.

    4. celebrate with intention

    If large gatherings or elaborate festivities aren’t in the cards this year, there’s nothing wrong with keeping it simple. You don’t need a huge crowd to make Christmas feel meaningful. Whether it’s enjoying a quiet evening with a few loved ones or taking time for yourself with a cozy bath and a good book, these smaller moments can bring all the peace and joy the season has to offer.

    Dandy, Delivered : Unlock 15% Off 

    Subscibe to claim your exclusive discount
    Thank you for joining Dandy! Expect premium wellness insights, exclusive offers, and updates straight to your inbox.

    coping with change: building resilience this christmas

    Let’s be real—change can be tough, and it’s totally normal to feel a little thrown off. But it’s important to give yourself the space to feel those emotions and to know that it’s okay not to have it all figured out. Here’s how to roll with the punches and embrace a holiday season that feels like yours:

    1. be kind to yourself

    Change isn’t easy, especially around the holidays. If things don’t go as planned, give yourself permission to let go of any pressure to “make it perfect.” No one has a flawless Christmas, and it’s okay to accept that things will look different this year. Embrace the beauty of the imperfections—they’re part of your story.

    2. keep your expectations realistic

    With so much hype around “the perfect Christmas,” it’s easy to set yourself up for disappointment. But remember, there’s no one right way to do Christmas. Let yourself off the hook for creating a picture-perfect holiday and instead focus on what makes you happy. Celebrate in a way that feels authentic, whether that’s a quiet day of self-care or a Zoom call with family.

    3. reach out for support

    You don’t have to go through it alone. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or disconnected, reach out to a friend, family member, or therapist. Talking it through can help you feel grounded and remind you that there’s always support around you—even when it doesn’t look like what you’re used to.

    4. let yourself grieve

    Sometimes, the holidays bring up feelings of loss, whether it’s the absence of a loved one or the shift in how you’re celebrating. It’s okay to feel sad or even a bit nostalgic. Allow yourself to feel those emotions, and don’t rush the process. Healing takes time, and this year’s Christmas might be a little different as you adjust to the change.

    DANDY DEVOTION...

    Schild intarsia merino wool turtleneck sweater

    Perfect Moment

    £335.00

    Stay cozy and chic with this merino wool turtleneck, blending warmth and style effortlessly. A versatile piece that’s perfect for everything from ski slopes to city strolls.

    Fairy grosgrain and suede-trimmed cashmere slippers

    The Row

    £840.00

    Indulge in ultimate comfort with these luxurious cashmere slippers, accented with grosgrain and suede for a timeless, sophisticated touch. Perfect for unwinding in style, they redefine everyday relaxation.

    Wave Dinner Set - Espresso - 3 Piece

    Woven Rosa

    £75.00

    Add a touch of elegance to your dining experience with this beautifully crafted dinner set. With its sleek design and rich espresso tone, it’s perfect for elevating everyday meals or hosting special gatherings.

    Nourishing Protein Chocolate Refill 1kg

    Welle Co

    £75.00

    Elevate your daily routine with a plant-based protein blend crafted to support energy, muscle recovery, and overall wellness. With its rich chocolate flavor and nutrient-packed formula, it’s the perfect companion for fueling your body and satisfying your taste buds.

    Cannabis candle

    MALIN + GOETZ

    £54.00

    Set the mood with a candle that combines earthy, spicy, and subtly sweet notes for a bold yet calming ambiance. Perfect for unwinding or adding a touch of sophistication to any space, it’s a sensory escape in a flicker.

    GREEN IPHONE Case

    The Go-To

    £57.00

    Protect your phone in style while adding a personal touch—this sleek, durable case is perfect for everyday use and doubles as a canvas for your favorite affirmation. Whether it’s a word or phrase to inspire your day, make it a little reminder to carry positivity wherever you go.

    acceptance: letting go of old expectations

    There’s no denying it—sometimes it’s hard to let go of how we thought Christmas should be. The old traditions hold a lot of sentimental value, and it’s natural to feel resistance when things aren’t the same. But here’s the thing: embracing a new way to celebrate doesn’t erase the past—it just opens up space for new memories. Christmas isn’t about how much you do or how big you celebrate; it’s about finding joy in the little moments and celebrating the things that really matter to you.

    conclusion: finding peace in new traditions

    So, this Christmas, let go of the idea that everything has to be exactly the way it was. Embrace the opportunity to create new traditions, connect with others in different ways, and find meaning in the season that resonates with where you are right now. Change might be hard, but it can also be the catalyst for growth, healing, and even a deeper connection to what truly matters. This year, make Christmas yours—however that looks—and find joy in the beauty of new traditions.

    Disclaimer: The content on this site is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making any decisions regarding your health or wellbeing.

    Share

    Exclusive Perks & Promotions

    FREE Shipping - All Orders

    15% Off Every Order

    Calling Wellness Pros

    As a wellness industry professional, you deserve more than just great products. Join our Dandy Pro Membership to access exclusive benefits tailored for experts like you. Enjoy 15% off every order, free shipping, and exclusive offers designed to elevate your practice and connect you with a community of like-minded professionals.

    APPLY NOW

    We use cookies to ensure you get the best experience on our website.

    1

    /